tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post4532141871353561968..comments2024-01-10T03:40:08.423-06:00Comments on KEEP BELIEVING: How we are doing - Jan 26, 2009Angie @ KEEP BELIEVINGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00930977696454848345noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-89626842995088872702009-01-31T23:52:00.000-06:002009-01-31T23:52:00.000-06:00I am praying for you and your family. Blessings t...I am praying for you and your family. Blessings to you all.bichonpawzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09344322575991668081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-22140328093318849652009-01-29T23:12:00.000-06:002009-01-29T23:12:00.000-06:00you are amazing. you are a gift to your children....you are amazing. you are a gift to your children. i am so sorry for your pain and brian's pain and grant and gavin. i admire your strength. i will pray pray pray for all of you. that you find peace. peace be with all of you.katydidnothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15710011717146842223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-76152066072661297642009-01-29T20:39:00.000-06:002009-01-29T20:39:00.000-06:00"Be still and know that I am God" Psalm 46:10 This..."Be still and know that I am God" Psalm 46:10 <BR/><BR/>This scripture has been given to me by God time and time again. I heard it again as I read your blog. <BR/><BR/>May God continue to provide you with peace. You are doing a terrific job.<BR/><BR/>A new friend in prayer <BR/><BR/>KimLoud Spirithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14228911846154008498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-16129058067713287142009-01-28T21:55:00.000-06:002009-01-28T21:55:00.000-06:00Praying for your family in Australia.Praying for your family in Australia.wheelyfasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10890391246794761890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-38592631087644743612009-01-28T21:37:00.000-06:002009-01-28T21:37:00.000-06:00I'm new here, stumbled in via Twitter. All I can ...I'm new here, stumbled in via Twitter. <BR/><BR/>All I can say is God Bless you and yours and that I will keep you in my prayers.MThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02657624957929650534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-39846698112183387252009-01-28T16:32:00.000-06:002009-01-28T16:32:00.000-06:00Several years ago, I watched a good friend go thro...Several years ago, I watched a good friend go through this same situation. Their kids were 5 and 2.5 when he finally lost his battle with the cancer, after a two year fight. Cancer is such and ugly, ugly thing, and no person should have to suffer through it, and no family should have to witness it or suffer themselves. My heart goes out to you and your boys. Warm thoughts and many hugs sent your way...Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13160551209809872319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-8837035800053215922009-01-28T12:35:00.000-06:002009-01-28T12:35:00.000-06:00I am praying for you and your family. You have tou...I am praying for you and your family. You have touched my heart. <BR/><BR/>I understand your need to create memories and spend bonding time while you can. Something you can do together is record Brian (audio and/or video) for the boys. Reading, sharing family stories, telling them how he came to believe in Jesus and how much they mean to him. While Brian is feeling strong, he can do simple things that will become lifelong treasures.Elizabeth M Thompsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05240759973899199360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-76638736230917563612009-01-27T22:54:00.000-06:002009-01-27T22:54:00.000-06:00Angie, one of the most striking things about you t...Angie, one of the most striking things about you that I've always admired is your honesty with all of this. And your honesty with your boys. Crying with them. Letting them know that you are incredibly sad and not just the STRONG MOMMY WHO WILL GET THROUGH THIS. Of course, you WILL get through this and you have to be strong - and you are, but sharing your grief is so healing. And sharing it with Brian. <BR/><BR/>I know this is very far in the future, but someday I hope you'll consider writing a book on this and you could use your blog posts in a compilation. <BR/><BR/>Sending prayers always...JCKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04582581376724478366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-25119891502737090992009-01-27T21:54:00.000-06:002009-01-27T21:54:00.000-06:00Hospice is a wonderful resource.I am so glad to he...Hospice is a wonderful resource.<BR/><BR/>I am so glad to hear that you are being offered so much help.<BR/><BR/>I cannot even imagine having the conversations with my spouse that you have just described. Or with my children. It is apparent that God is giving you the strength to deal with a situation that is almost unbearable. It reminds me of a passage from The Hiding Place, where Corrie ten Boom's father explains to her that God gives us our "ticket" when we need it and not before. You are being incredibly brave and strong, and I pray that you get all the help you need in the upcoming weeks.<BR/><BR/>God bless you, and God help your husband come to terms with what is happening. He must feel so sad and frightened.Suburban Correspondenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11488916572135296650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-77600961591158719342009-01-27T15:28:00.000-06:002009-01-27T15:28:00.000-06:00Thinking of you all and sending much love XXXXXXThinking of you all and sending much love XXXXXXTabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07674175474109511527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-19978293918375178292009-01-27T15:03:00.000-06:002009-01-27T15:03:00.000-06:00Angie,I have been reading your blog for several mo...Angie,<BR/><BR/>I have been reading your blog for several months now . . . I don't even remember how I found it . . . I can only assume that God led me here. Your humor has made me laugh many times and your honest sharing of what you are going through has truly inspired me.<BR/><BR/>I lost my husband eight years ago. Unlike you, though, my loss was very unexpected as he died very suddenly in an accident at the age of 37. In all honesty, I don't know which is worse, to lose him unexectedly without the chance to love on him and say goodbye or to know that it is coming and have to try to prepare yourself for it. What I DO know is that no matter what the circumstance of our loss . . . our God is so much bigger than the circumstance and loss, and He reveals Himself to us in amazing ways and carries us and provides for us and loves on us through it all. I know that when the grief is unbearable and you don't know what to do with it . . .you can cry out to God and He will bear it for you and get you through that moment. I know that when your kids are so upset you can't calm them . . .you can pray over them with trembling lips and hands demanding that He take the hurt and pain away and He will give them His peace in that moment. <BR/><BR/>I know from personal experience that, even though I would never choose to go through the loss of my husband, I would also never give up the experience I had as God brought me through that time of my life. Even though I was in a horrible place without my husband, I was in the most amazing place with my God. We aren't guaranteed that we will grow old with our loved ones, but we ARE guaranteed that God will be with us NO MATTER WHAT. We are promised that He will use for good ALL THINGS if we believe in, rely on, and trust in Him.<BR/><BR/>I will be in earnest prayer for your family - for God's presence to be felt in a real and powerful way by each one of you during each step of this journey you are on; for His peace and love to wash over you, especially in the really hard moments. I pray that through your lives and testimony, He will continue to be glorified.<BR/><BR/>Fear not, for I am with you; do not look around you in terror and be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you in difficulties, yes, I will help you; yes, I will hold you up with My victorious right hand. <BR/> Isaiah 41:10<BR/><BR/>He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty (Whose power no foe can withstand). I will say of the Lord, He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I will lean and rely and in Him I will confidently trust! <BR/> Psalm 91:1-2<BR/><BR/>Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens.<BR/> Psalm 68:19<BR/><BR/>Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.<BR/> Isaiah 43:2-3<BR/><BR/><BR/>A sister in Christ from Nebraska who loves you though we've never met!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-78153542675550731292009-01-27T14:54:00.000-06:002009-01-27T14:54:00.000-06:00I've always heard that it's not the destination, b...I've always heard that it's not the destination, but the journey, that counts...my spirit is with you as are my prayers...much love to you all sweetheart....((((HUG))))Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00181520825012037531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-8374749360783165922009-01-27T13:41:00.000-06:002009-01-27T13:41:00.000-06:00Hospice was an enormous help and relief to us when...Hospice was an enormous help and relief to us when my father was dying. They were able to provide my Dad with actual physical comfort, but also provided the rest of us with a great deal of emotional support as well. I admire your able to just keep moving through the days, even as I know that it is unthinkable for you to do anything else right now. I will be thinking about you.Alyssahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11058539564682962216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-42175326329012765392009-01-27T13:31:00.000-06:002009-01-27T13:31:00.000-06:00Thinking of you and your family.Your articulation ...Thinking of you and your family.<BR/><BR/>Your articulation of how you are feeling is so... amazing. I wish I knew of something beautiful and comforting to say...<BR/><BR/>for now, just sending thoughts and prayers.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05305850648928447302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-89062443315103008292009-01-27T13:04:00.000-06:002009-01-27T13:04:00.000-06:00Sending my thoughts and prayers to you from Massac...Sending my thoughts and prayers to you from Massachusetts.<BR/>I'm amazed at your strength.Sarahvizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07257891014401157085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-87314285855952561362009-01-27T12:46:00.000-06:002009-01-27T12:46:00.000-06:00I am here for you. Anything.KaraI am here for you. Anything.<BR/>KaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-87336190312347456942009-01-27T08:38:00.000-06:002009-01-27T08:38:00.000-06:00Angie,After crying with you I have two pieces of a...Angie,<BR/>After crying with you I have two pieces of advice.<BR/><BR/>The first I think you already know. Go to God in a quiet place and just meditate with Him. First do any movements that will loosen the muscles in your shoulders. Talk to Him and listen to His response. I know that this works since I have applied it many times in the last two years of dealing with my DH dementia.<BR/><BR/>Second is something I have been doing for years. Since my family has a history of ostioporosis I started 1500 MG of calcium with vitamin D. Then I talked to a friend who works with vitamins and minerals and she told me that calcium is a natural relaxer and that I should take it a night. When I forget my calcium I do not sleep as well and wake frequently during the night. When I take it I sleep well. Above all I do not have a groggy feeling and I wake immediately during the night if the need arises. If you feel uncertain about this contact your own doctor to check and see if this is something you can add to your routine before following my advice.<BR/><BR/>I am praying for you and Brian, Grant and Gavin. Lord surround these blessed friends with your love and protection. Help them in the difficult moments and celebrate with them during the happy and memory making times. They are Your children in every sense of the word and will praise you for every gift of grace that you give them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-80024952828179438892009-01-27T07:37:00.000-06:002009-01-27T07:37:00.000-06:00Another bloggy friend requested everyone pray for ...Another bloggy friend requested everyone pray for you and gave a link to your blog. I'm so sorry for your pain! I just want you to know that I'm praying for you and your family. I don't know you, but from what I have read you are an inspiration for others. May God richly bless you and your dear family in this time. I love your closing, and yes keep believing in a miracle they do happen everyday! Sometimes they just don't come in the form we believe they should and that is very hard for us to grasp, but never lose faith. Again, I'm will lift you and your dear family before the throne.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08944930114052239336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-50045237258102070362009-01-27T06:33:00.000-06:002009-01-27T06:33:00.000-06:00Angie, I'm praying for you and your family.Angie, I'm praying for you and your family.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11186297078340530940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-31149295344870752362009-01-27T06:25:00.000-06:002009-01-27T06:25:00.000-06:00Brian is most proud of you, I am sure of it. You a...Brian is most proud of you, I am sure of it. You are showing tremendous grace and strength much the same as he is. <BR/>Praying for warm, love filled days and nights; through it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-8499694432509624772009-01-27T06:12:00.000-06:002009-01-27T06:12:00.000-06:00I am having a hard time finding the words to expre...I am having a hard time finding the words to express my thoughts. For right now, I am praying for you and your family, praying for strenght, peace and acceptance.Patrice and Higginshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14961959014212195011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-42447107249031295802009-01-27T05:37:00.000-06:002009-01-27T05:37:00.000-06:00Thank you for sharing this update. In my prayers ...Thank you for sharing this update. In my prayers for you, I am going to ask the Lord to help your neck and shoulder pain...because if the massage didn't work - I don't know what else will! :)Beth Cotellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14536268080265726705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-26647973134188878862009-01-26T23:47:00.000-06:002009-01-26T23:47:00.000-06:00You are constantly on my thoughts and prayers. I ...You are constantly on my thoughts and prayers. I too wish there were something I could do. Reading along and commenting just does not seem like enough. Seriously, anything for the kids? Anything let me know. They have mail here in Arizona.<BR/><BR/>You are a angel from God. From the outside looking in, you are doing a phenomenal job. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there, and I am with Texas Holly, take a HUGE bubble bath! :)Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04757190486746869272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-56879324986247236162009-01-26T23:31:00.000-06:002009-01-26T23:31:00.000-06:00I appreciate the update. I worry about you and yo...I appreciate the update. I worry about you and your family. Prayers continue. Sending hugs and a warm bath...I think a bath wouldn't hurt. Put in some bubbles? Big puffy bubbles that overwhelm the water and fall out onto the bathroom floor. No, that would be a mess that you would just have to clean up. Keep the bubbles under control...that would be more relaxing.Texashollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17982077447405220888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40716328257111525.post-63078098544365458872009-01-26T23:11:00.000-06:002009-01-26T23:11:00.000-06:00Praying for you.Praying for you.MLPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15023269555251494387noreply@blogger.com